• The Conflict: High-shine fabrics are traditionally associated with evening wear, galas, and celebrations. They reflect light and can be distracting in a chapel or graveside setting.
• The Fix: It is perfectly fine to wear gold or silver jewelry, but keep the clothing fabrics matte.
Quick Guide: What to Wear Instead
If you aren't sure about the specific "vibe" of the service, sticking to these classics is a safe bet:
Preference
Traditional
Recommended Colors
Black, Charcoal Gray, Navy Blue
Softer Approach
Deep Olive, Burgundy,
Chocolate Brown
Neutral
Beige, Taupe, Sand (best paired with darker accents)
A Final Tip: Always check the obituary or the funeral home’s website. If the family has requested a "bright colors only" dress code to honor the deceased’s personality, then by all means—ignore the rules above and wear your brightest red!
